La vida es facil (Life is easy). We are born in this world with people taking care of us until we are about 18 years old (on average). Then if we play our cards right and are lucky to live long enough, people take care of us when we are old. In between is where the discrepancy lies. If you live right, you can get people to take care of you; to guide and support you. If not, you are on your own and life becomes difficult.
People are rude. They do things for themselves with nobody else in regards. Life to them is all about making themselves better, it is for their gain. They will use you in many ways. They call it "Use and Abuse" and that is what it implies. Some do not care about your well being while others may pretend. What is the meaning of living like that if all you do is use people and hurt them? I never understood the concept of cheating on someone you love, especially in marriage. Either way, it is horrible, but the person who you say "I do" to is just wrong. With your vows, you pledge to love and cherish them forever. You are saying to everyone in the world that out of them, you chose one certain person. That means there is nobody else out there better than that one person. So why cheat if you could not get anyone better?
Marriage is not what it used to be. It is not sacred as it is supposed to be. People fall in and out of love quickly and then you have those who get married because they are afraid to spend life alone. Others rush to marriage because of the benefits of it such as raising a family, monetary benefits, and the such. Even nowadays, you do not have to be married to have children. People just do not seem to believe in marriage before sex anymore. Some people will marry because it is what they are "supposed to do" at a certain part of their life.
Another thing I do not understand is why people date someone if you have no intentions of one day getting married to that person. Maybe because I am older now that I think this way, but is not the whole point of dating to find that someone who can be with the rest of your life? With many people today, they date so they can have the "benefits" of a relationship and we all know what I mean by "benefits." Today's society, we do what we want without ever having to be in a relationship. We can make out, fool around, or have sex without thinking twice about it. To us, its okay, we will not have a guilty conscience and we will not have to worry about strings being attached.
Well, I tell you what, it is not okay. This is why our society is so screwed up as it is. People do things out of their own will with only themselves in mind. They do not do God's will. They do not care about their sister or their brother. They are only living for todays and not tomorrow's satisfaction.
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